What is “Unstoppable Coaching?”

Unstoppable Coaching is one-on-one life coaching based on the principles outlined in the book, “Being Unstoppable,” by David Chard, and brought to life experientially in The Unstoppable Workshop.

Are you lost inside limiting beliefs?

“The purpose of the coaching is to take a close look at what you want and the things that stop you from having it. As clarity about ‘what’s stopping you’ emerges, the coaching focuses on the five principal reasons people do not achieve their dreams.”

No.1 The Box: Essentially, this is the ‘box’ that people want to transcend when they say ‘I need to go outside the Box.’ It is the Comfort Zone, The Robot (hard-wired reaction-patterns) and Filters that create personal blind spots. Essentially, ‘The Box’ is your mind and your nervous system. Your mind is a beautiful gift, but when self-awareness is blocked, it can stop you and keep you stuck in circular strategies that go nowhere. Unstoppable Coaching helps you see the conflicts that prevent you moving forward when one part of you says “Yes!” and another part says “No!”

And when you understand these conflicts and what to do about them, you are on your way.

No. 2 Stories: Human beings live from stories of their own creation. You have a story about who you are, what is possible and not possible for you, what your life means, what the world is like, and “who you are” as a person. With the right story, you can achieve anything. But if your story (outside of awareness) does not serve your dream, it will stop you in your tracks. In Unstoppable Coaching, you will gain deep insights into your story, where it came from, how it is or is not serving you and how to create a powerful story that can make you Unstoppable.

No. 3 Limiting Beliefs: Limiting beliefs are also created in your mind, based on your life experiences during your formative years, in your culture of origin. As outlined in the book, “Being Unstoppable,” no belief is actually true, and all beliefs are really lies! Your beliefs tell you things like: “You can’t, you shouldn’t, you mustn’t, you aren’t this, you aren’t that, you are this you are that, and many others. Beliefs are rules, some of which you created outside of awareness and some of which you were forced to accept by others around you. And if you believe these rules, your life is going to be limited to ‘following the rules’ and you are not free.

“Unstoppable Coaching will assist you to identify your limiting beliefs and eliminate them or replace them with beliefs that actually serve you. Most importantly, your limiting beliefs will seem unbelievable to you and will actually seem ridiculous.

No. 4 FEAR: Again, your fears are born in your mind, and they are reflected in your Comfort Zone, Your robotic unconscious patterns, your stories and your limiting beliefs. Fear stops more people than anything else. It is why people go to their graves with sorrow and regrets about dreams they never dared to try. Unstoppable Coaching will help you get in touch with your fears and the outdated ideas, beliefs and stories that make your mental movies of disaster seem like ‘reality’ to you. You will learn to ‘smile at fear’ and move forward in the direction of your dreams, Unstoppably.

No. 5 The Inner Critic: The Inner Critic is simply the voice of your ego, like a radio station in your brain, telling you all the reasons you are flawed, defective, hopeless, powerless and even stupid. It is the incessant mental chatter of your thoughts, that seem to be ‘who you are,’ when you identify with it. Unstoppable Coaching will help you address your Inner Critic, understand it, and finally tame it.

The Big Picture of Unstoppable Coaching. It will:

Assist you to raise your self-awareness to much higher levels.

Help you see new possibilities, from those higher levels, that you did not see before.

Empower you to make new and better choices, from among the new possibilities, that can propel you towards your dream.

No one can make you change. But Unstoppable Coaching will support you to make the changes you wish to make, in your own time, in your own way, with dignity, respect, and love. Gently and skillfully, Unstoppable Coaching helps you set the stage for your own transformation, using your own power.” ~ David Chard, Master Coach

 

Who Aren’t You?

There is a story about a man from England who traveled to India to speak with the sage Ramana Maharshi. The sage asked him, “Why have you come here?” and the man replied “I am here because i want to find out who I really am?” Maharshi then asked the man “WHO is this “I?”

The man was speechless. Then the sage smiled and said, “If you want to know who you really are, go back the way you came,” The man was stunned because he thought the sage was just telling him to go back to England.

The real meaning of “Go back the way you came,” is to retrace your steps through life and discard everything that is not who you really are….that you currently believe is ‘you.’

You are not your limiting beliefs.
You are not your stories.
You are not your education.
You are not your bank account.
You are not your job.
You are not your name.
You are not your thoughts.
You are not your fears.
You are not the chatter in your mind.
You are not your past.
You are not your achievements or failures.
You are not your toys.
You are not who you think you are.
You are not what others think you are.

So, who are you? “Who IS this “I?”

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Loosen Your Beliefs…at The Unstoppable Workshop

Loosen Your Beliefs

Who do you say you are?

“In order to live your soul into the world,
you must continuously loosen your beliefs
about who you are.

…loosen your beliefs about
who you are supposed to be.

…loosen your beliefs about
who other people are.

…loosen your beliefs about
how life is supposed to be.

   ~ Richard Rohr and Alan Seale

Beliefs are made-up rules, often created when we are small children, that bind us in limitation and keep us in a box of our own making. They often occur as thought-stories penned by our Inner Critic. They can seem real and evoke strong emotional / fear responses that keep us going in circles. They have no reality beyond what you give to them.
Beliefs Have Consequences
It takes time, focus, and energy to hang on to beliefs…just as it does to fly a kite. Holding on tightly to the string, focused on one tiny piece of sky and you have to stand in a fixed position, unmoving.
Beliefs blind us to any evidence that doesn’t agree with the belief.
Beliefs about ourselves, others and life can cause suffering and cut us off from our own self-love and self-compassion.
Beliefs are never ‘true’…they are simply thoughts that we choose to agree with…though most often we have long forgotten making the choice.
Beliefs pretend to keep us ‘safe’ from what we fear but at the same time keep us ‘safe’ from setting ourselves free.
Holding onto a limiting belief, or not, can make the difference between living the life of your dreams…or ending up with despair, sorrow and regrets.
You are invited to ‘loosen up your beliefs’ and if you do…you may find that they simply slip away and are forgotten. Like when you let go of the string of a kite. You no longer have to stand in one place and are once again free to move in the direction of your dreams.
“You don’t get what you deserve. You get what you believe.”
The Unstoppable Workshop™ is 2 days of fun, sharing, learning and transformation. It’s like a safe cocoon in which you can reconsider your world view and choose new ways of being that reflect who you really are. Then, you can emerge with new wings, to enjoy a new life, free of limiting beliefs. We use a lot of experiential activities, games and humor to make it an entertaining cocoon…and one that will compassionately stretch your mind into a new shape.
“What if the change you’re avoiding is the one that will set you free?”
Learn more about The Unstoppable Workshop™ here: https://unstoppable.zone/the-unstoppable-workshop/
Register for The Unstoppable Workshop™ here: https://unstoppable.zone/events/list/featured/

What Does it All ‘mean?’

They say, “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.” Imagine you have pointed yourself in a certain direction, perhaps a goal, some achievement, a personal dream. And while you are on that trajectory…’stuff happens.’

It isn’t the stuff you wanted, or expected, but it’s the stuff that showed up. You feel it as an obstacle, something getting in your way, stopping you. Pause for a moment and think of a recent example…or even an old one. Got it?

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