Who Aren’t You?

There is a story about a man from England who traveled to India to speak with the sage Ramana Maharshi. The sage asked him, “Why have you come here?” and the man replied “I am here because i want to find out who I really am?” Maharshi then asked the man “WHO is this “I?”
The man was speechless. Then the sage smiled and said, “If you want to know who you really are, go back the way you came,” The man was stunned because he thought the sage was just telling him to go back to England. The real meaning of “Go back the way you came” is to retrace your steps through life and discard everything that is not who you really are….that you currently believe is ‘you.’
You are not your limiting beliefs.
You are not your stories.
You are not your education.
You are not your bank account.
You are not your job.
You are not your name.
You are not your thoughts.
You are not your fears.
You are not the chatter in your mind.
You are not your past.
You are not your achievements or failures.
You are not your toys.
You are not who you think you are.
You are not what others think you are.
So, who are you? “Who IS this “I?”
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Why Would You Choose to Attend The Unstoppable Workshop?

Unstoppable fun and un-learning

That is a very fair question! Here are some of the answers. Of course, your answer is the right one.

Life is Short. You want things, imagine things…a future you want for yourself. And the days keep clicking by and you don’t feel any closer to getting what you want. You wonder, “Will I ever get there? Is it really possible for me? Can I do it?” The clock keeps ticking. When will you make the change you’ve been considering? Time is an important reason for you to invest in yourself and come to The Unstoppable Workshop.

Perhaps You’ve Been Sitting on the Fence. You think, “I’m not ready yet. i don’t have enough motivation. I’m not sure it will work.” And that is understandable…we all have thoughts like these. The fact is, you will never be ‘ready!’ You will never really ‘feel like it’…until you take the leap of faith and commit yourself to pursue your dream. In the workshop you’ll discover that ‘being ready’ is never the issue! The issue is: do you trust yourself enough to lake the leap and learn to fly on the way down! After the workshop….you will!

Voices in Your Head Say “No.” We all have an Inner Critic that is ever-ready to pounce on our mistakes and tell us negative things. “You must be kidding yourself! It’s never going to work! Who do you think you are?” Sound familiar? In the workshop you will learn how to deal with you Inner Critic and how to unleash your potential…in spite of the thoughts that pop up to stop you.

FEAR. There’s that word! You have a feeling in your gut and it’s not a nice one. Fear is what stops people from achieving their dreams. We all have fears…but not everyone has the mindset, the awareness and the skills to send fear packing. In our workshop, you will learn how to deal with fear whenever it shows up to stop you. You will be Unstoppable.

What You Should Know. We claim that the only thing that ever stopped anyone is their self-limiting beliefs. Thoughts and ideas that you gave your agreement to long ago..,even as a 5-year-old…and haven’t re-examined since. In The Unstoppable Workshop you will look at your beliefs from a new perspective…learn to doubt them utterly…and move forward to pursue your dreams…Unstoppably. From a new awareness. you will get a new perspective and see new choices that you didn’t see before. Literally, you will free yourself from all the limitations that have stopped you…until now.

The Real Question to Consider Now. Would you invest a small amount of money to free yourself from what stops you? We’ve spent 2 years investing in the R&D to make The Unstoppable Workshop an extraordinary experience that will liberate you and allow you to go for your dreams. Our PIlot Edition in Taipei was a big hit…and we are planning another one soon. And the price is only US$395 (NT$11,850.) for 2 days of fun, unlearning, music, food and friendship. You can register here now:  https://unstoppable.zone/events/list/featured/ 

Two Ways of Looking at The Unstoppable Workshop. For some people, it’s a way of going directly towards the life they’ve imagined. For others, it’s a crystal-clear pathway to avoid ending up at the No Way Cafe. Which ever way appeals to you, you will get what you need at The Unstoppable Workshop. We guarantee it.

Now available in Chinese!

More Information here: https://unstoppable.zone/the-unstoppable-workshop/

We look forward to welcoming you to The Unstoppable Workshop. We promise that in your life, there will be “the time before The Unstoppable Workshop…and the liberation that followed. See you there soon!

I Am Enough. Let Me Count The Ways

Probably the single most damaging self-limiting belief is the idea that a person could be inadequate, unworthy, incomplete…or ‘not enough.’ This thought-virus pervades our planet, largely as a result of the many trillions of dollars spent on mass-media advertising to convince people that “If you would just buy our product…then…and only then…you will be OK, acceptable, worthy, a better mother, a good person, more beautiful,” and so on. All the adverts are saying is “you are not enough as you are and you will only be ‘enough’ when you find your missing piece. And we have it here in a variety of sizes, shapes and colors.”
Like all self-limiting beliefs, the “I am not enough” meme is a lie. And the very idea that a person could, at some fundamental level be ‘not enough,’ apart from being ludicrous, has done enormous damage to the lives of billions of people. Because, to live inside the lie of ‘not enough’ is to suffer and to fall short of personal joy and fulfillment. And then you die, with regrets, assuming that the lie was true.

So, in this post, I want to distinguish “I am enough” as an antidote to the toxic “unworthiness meme” that has been proliferating in The Matrix, in hopes that in some way, this may help people to recover their sense of ‘enough-ness’ and realize they are in fact Unstoppable.

Some people when hearing about “I am enough” for the first time, have this reaction:

“If I buy into this, it means there will no longer be any motivation to go after my goals or pursued my dreams. I will just sit on my ass thinking ‘I am enough’ and feel I don’t need to do anything at all. To hell with that.”

This idea, that we need to have a sense of incompleteness or unworthiness in order to be motivated is a bit strange, if you think about it. Translated, it says, “The only way to motivate people is to first make them feel ‘less-than’ or ‘not good enough’ and then persuade them that ‘someday’…when they have done A, B, C….then they will be good enough.” Quite a lot like the message of all that mass-media advertising, is it not?

The “someday I’ll be OK” notion implies that, on the way to ‘success’ you are doomed to living each day from a sense of inadequacy, not really good enough, flawed and incomplete, and, that such a state of unworthiness is going to be motivating over the long term! Ludicrous!

So now let me explain what “I am enough” really means:

“I am enough” is a stand for personal wholeness that is an intrinsic and integral part of every human being, from birth. It can never be increased nor can it be diminished. It says: ‘I am worthy, because I am here, and nothing can threaten my worth, ever. My worth is never ‘up for grabs.’

“I am enough” is a very powerful message to the subconscious mind, declaring, “I am good, I am worthy, I deserve, I can have a good life, I am accepted, always and in All Ways.” Since the mind always does what it thinks you want it to do, it’s safe to assume that a mind programmed with “I am enough” as a core assumption is going to produce a life of joy and fulfillment.

(Unlike a life lived from “I’m not enough, I’m flawed, incomplete and inadequate across the board, which is going to be a life of sadness, shame, and self-fulfilling failures.)

“I am enough” is broad and pervasive in its positive implications:
I am strong enough
I am smart enough
I am beautiful enough
I am powerful enough
I am resilient enough
I am happy enough
I am talented enough
I am good enough
I am capable enough
I am worthy enough
 
“I am enough” implies that, in every way that matters, I am irrevocably adequate, whole, complete and essentially wonderful…simply because I am a miracle of the Universe. Did you know that the odds against anyone existing at all are 1 in 400 trillion? J

When I live from the understanding and the knowing that “I am enough” I can choose to pursue anything that lights me up, inspires me, fulfills me or contributes to the world. In other words, I can pursue my dreams from a position of worthiness… instead of a position of fear and self-loathing due to my alleged inadequacy. Every day, in every way, I AM ENOUGH.

People who realize they are enough have different self-talk from those who believe they are inadequate and this self-talk reinforces their ‘enough-ness’ in a positive loop:

I am enough…so I deserve love

I am enough…so I love myself as I am right now…no waiting

I am enough…so I have something to offer the world

I am enough…so my mistakes are just bumps in the road, not ‘evidence” of inadequacy

I am enough…so I’m a great person

I am enough…so I have the courage to pursue my dreams

I am enough…so I know I cannot ‘fail’

Renowned therapist Marisa Peer, a huge proponent of the transformative power of ‘I am enough’ reminds us that:

                  “Every word you say or think is a blueprint for your reality.

                    We make our thoughts and then our thoughts make us.”

The Core Issue. Working with people from all walks of life, rich and poor, Marisa noticed that the core issue for every one of her clients was that they believed “I am not enough…there is something wrong with me.”
As such they had pursued every manner of dysfunctional life strategy ‘in order to’…be enough…someday. And she found that in every case, when her clients really ‘got it’ that they were already ‘enough’ their lives transformed rapidly and effortlessly; the suffering was over. In my terms, they awakened to the fact of their Unstoppability…and were no longer stopped.

“I am enough” stops the suffering. The worst thing about a belief in being ‘not enough’ is that is a form of deep suffering and pain. Imagine being in a trance of believing you are less-than, inadequate, unworthy and unlovable…all the while comparing yourself to others you believe are worthy ‘because they made it to the top’ or performed in remarkable ways that you have not. The Big Lie of “not enough” is incredibly painful and undermines your possibilities…it does NOT empower or motivate you in any way.

“I am enough” is immediate and always true. It is not linked to any standard of achievement. It is not a reward you aspire to. It is already yours, because you were born. It is a gift. Will you accept this gift?

One more wonderful quote from Marisa Peer, a champion of the #IAMENOUGH movement:

“You can choose what you say to yourself. But you don’t get to choose what happens when you self-criticize and put yourself down. Where the head goes, the body follows and you are inviting a weakened immune system, depression, anxiety and endless stress.”

In other words, when you put yourself down with your self-talk, you are shooting yourself in the foot and making yourself Stoppable.

 invite you to put up Post-It notes all around you with the words “I am enough” on them. Each time you see the words “I am enough” just go ahead and accept it as a fact. When your Inner Critic puts you down, just reply with “Thanks but I am enough and I am unstoppable.” Find out what happens.

Make no mistake: you are already Unstoppable and you are already Enough. The Unstoppable Workshop™ is simply a portal for those who may not have fully realized it…yet.
Learn more about The Unstoppable Workshop™ here:
https://unstoppable.zone/the-unstoppable-workshop/
Register for The Unstoppable Workshop™ here:
https://unstoppable.zone/events/list/featured/

 

 

The Journey of Being Unstoppable

(An excerpt from my book, “Being Unstoppable”)

You will be born into a pre-existing human culture that will condition you to accept the customs, language, mindsets and beliefs of that culture, from their past. You won’t have a choice about this; you will suck it all up like a dry sponge in your eagerness to ‘fit in’ and be accepted by the tribe.

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